• 20th September
    2014
  • 20
I'm always so jealous of my sister, she has a boyfriend, she's really pretty, smart, funny, brave, outgoing, has clear skin, an amazing artist, has cool hair. I am nothing compared to her, I'm just really ugly and I have no talents and no friends...!

Asked by: Anonymous

There will always be people we want to compare ourselves to, love. And it’s not just you. And there will be people who get better grades than us, people who are better at a certain sport or hobby, and so on. But you can’t just assume that means you have no talents or skills or that you’re a lot worse than the person. You’re smarter than people too. You’re better at your talents than others. It’s nothing you can define.

And I know it’s difficult not to compare yourself, since she’s your sister, but you are your own person. You’re you. She is herself. You don’t compare to her because you are your own combination of awesome and she is hers. You have things you like to do and specialize in, as does she. Start working on thinking of yourself as your own person, you don’t compare to her alright? xo

-Jamie

  • 16th September
    2014
  • 16
  • 13th September
    2014
  • 13
I'm going round blogs that might help me. Irwinees is posting some scary stuff and I don't know what to say to her. She thinks I'm the only one that thinks she's worth anything so if you could ask people just to tell her the truth that would be great. Really nice blog, keep up the work!

Asked by: Anonymous

http://Irwinees.tumblr.com
Everyone send some lovely love to this lovely person, okay?

  • 8th September
    2014
  • 08
trauma-tize:

I made a flyer for National Suicide Prevention Week, if you like it you can help me by printing it out and posting it out there. It’s just a little something I came up with, but the event for Wednesday is something thought up by the NSPW community.
Before posting the flyer someplace public, ask if it is okay. =3 Help us raise awareness!

trauma-tize:

I made a flyer for National Suicide Prevention Week, if you like it you can help me by printing it out and posting it out there. It’s just a little something I came up with, but the event for Wednesday is something thought up by the NSPW community.

Before posting the flyer someplace public, ask if it is okay. =3 Help us raise awareness!

  • 7th September
    2014
  • 07
Yesterday was my 20th birthday. Is it selfish of me to be disappointed that my boyfriend didn't buy me anything? He works 15 hours a day and all the stores are closed by the time he gets off...but I was still hoping for a card or something small.

Asked by: Anonymous

It’s not disappointing love, but you also have to understand that different people have different needs, so maybe he didn’t think it was necessary, this doesn’t necessarily mean that he loves you less. Talk to him and explain. It’s a simple thing, and your relationship has to be strong enough to be honest with him without problems, and that way you’ll get this over with

~ Bea

  • 7th September
    2014
  • 07
I'm so lonely and sad and worthless and fat and ugly and unloved and unwanted and completely invisible and I hate me

Asked by: Anonymous

You are absolutely none of those things lovely! You are an amazing human being! There is only one you in the world, when you were created each cell formed perfectly to make a PERFECT YOU. You are very loved and amazing! Have you considered talking to someone about how you feel like this? Holding it in can really be more damaging than anything because it builds up. Try talking to someone you trust and I know they’ll understand. I love you and remember you are the perfect you.
-Yael

  • 6th September
    2014
  • 06
I'm only eating between 500-900 ish calories a day. Is it enough? Or super unhealthy? My mom is saying I'm not eating enough when ever she asks I just push her away and say that it's enough or that I'm full even if I'm starving. I think I'm anorexic. Any advice?

Asked by: Anonymous

You need at least 1200 calories, lovely. 500 is nowhere near enough for one day. You just need to realize that we need them. this isn’t something that’s unhealthy. 1200 calories is a good, healthy amount to eat. it keeps you energized, keeps your immune system healthy and your brain working and keeps you happy even. eating enough makes a huge improvement on your overall health. if you’re having a difficult time getting enough to eat, try talking to someone okay? you’re not alone in this and you can get past it. you need more food in your system because it can affect you really badly in the long run. so start working on this, maybe try to talking to your mom and tell her how difficult it is to eat enough. then you can ask to get some help from a professional about this. you can get through it love.

-Jamie

  • 6th September
    2014
  • 06
Is it bad to be jealous of my dead brother because he still gets more attention than I have had/ will ever have? To be jealous that he beat me to suicide? To still want to commit but can't knowing that I have to be strong for everyone else even though I'm breaking apart? To lie to myself saying that I'm okay when I know I'm really not? To know that I can't ask for help because then that'd be selfish? I can't let people know I'm dying inside

Asked by: Anonymous

You’re just hurting love and I completely understand. I’m sorry you lost your brother. The reason you may feel like he still gets more attention is because suicide is a major thing and your parents probably are still hurting over it. The best thing to do is be open with them, because holding it in can be so much worse than actually telling someone that you’re struggling. It’s not selfish at all to ask for help, it’s actually the best thing you could possibly do. I’m here for you no matter what and I love you. Stay strong.
-lots of love, Yael

  • 5th September
    2014
  • 05
Will guys never date me because im asexual?

Asked by: Anonymous

Some might not, but those who don’t aren’t worth your time. Trust me, you will find someone once you get out in the world. Just be yourself, and don’t try to change just to get a guy. The right one will love you for who you are and won’t pressure you into things that you don’t want to do.

Hearts and kibble,
Elliot

  • 29th August
    2014
  • 29
This is the girl that was having an anxiety attack over going to a guy's house. Thankyou so much for answering so quick. I went to his house and we just watched TV, talked etc. While we were talking he kept asking me if I had a boyfriend, if I ever had one & if I wanted one. I said it didn't bother me to be single as I don't believe in love and then it was all awkward until my mom came to pick me up. I like him but I'm confused as if I like him that way and I don't feel like I'm ready for a bf?

Asked by: Anonymous

You can like someone and not be ready to be with this person love, it happens a lot actually. Talk to him and tell him the truth, that you do like him but you need to be ready for a relationship. Maybe taking things slow would work

~ Bea