• 21st July
    2014
  • 21
Does this blog get more or less asks than the main blog? I really need someone to talk to, and I never get answered on the main blog.

Asked by: Anonymous

Our main blog is the most popular one so it gets the most. Right now it has over 1,000 and this one has 5. You can send your question here, love, and we can try to get to it! (:

-Jamie

  • 20th July
    2014
  • 20
Hi, can you please send love to pottersangel99 ? She seems to be having a really hard time. Thank you xo

Asked by: Anonymous

pottersangel99

please send love

  • 19th July
    2014
  • 19
I've been getting a lot of headaches lately should I see a doctor about this?

Asked by: Anonymous

love it is always best to know what is going on with your body. headaches can be from stress, lack of sleep, lack of food, dehyrdation, fatigue, lots of things. try to maintain a good diet (and enough food) a lot of water per day and a normal sleeping schedule. maybe write down when you get your headaches and how bad so you can talk to a doctor and make sure nothing too bad is going on.
-Jamie

  • 19th July
    2014
  • 19
How is a good way to cover scars when I can't wear long sleeves

Asked by: Anonymous

Bracelets, bandanas, make up (if they are scars, not cuts), a light sweater or cardigan, you could bandage it and say you hurt your wrist.
-Jamie

  • 17th July
    2014
  • 17
Hy, i used to cut and today i was celebrating my birthday with my friends, and my bff gave me a package of razor blades... i was so shocked that i canceled my whole party, and i'm still shaking... imean how could she do something like that... ★♡♥☆

Asked by: Anonymous

I’m sorry love, I am a bit shocked as well … I’m sorry but this girl was just being mean and you do not deserve that. You deserve to be happy and treated with respect and love, and this is not the way to do so.

Please understand that you are beautiful and wonderful and that this doesn’t mean anything, this was just someone being stupid, and you are so so worth everything good in this world. Stay strong beautiful, you are amazing, you are a badass, and you are doing great <3

Don’t ever settle for anything less than you deserve, this is valid for your friends, relationships, etc. Don’t mind her, it was unecessary, you are great

btw, Happy Birthday , or in Portuguese, Feliz Aniversário !

~ Bea

  • 16th July
    2014
  • 16
Hello darlings, we are a brand new advice blog and I would be forever thankful if you could tell your followers that our ask box is always open! Have a nice day!-Bai

Asked by: youreneveralonelove

  • 13th July
    2014
  • 13
I've been cutting myself but I don't know why & I'm scared that if I tell someone and say that I don't know why I have been doing this they'll say I just want attention. The thing is I don't kno it might have been but I'm also really stressed about school so I have no idea what to do. -rianne

Asked by: Anonymous

I think you’re using it as a stress relief.
Maybe instead you could write, or read (get lost in a different world). Maybe you could exercise, like go for a walk when you really need to get away from your stressors. Maybe you could take a break and do your nails/hair/make up.
Hope this helps you, love,
-Sam

  • 13th July
    2014
  • 13
I just wanted to share this...I'm over 2 weeks clean from having relapsed after over 2 months of no cutting but I've been so happy recently and haven't even had the urge!

Asked by: Anonymous

That’s amazing love I’m so proud if you!!

  • 12th July
    2014
  • 12
I'm dating a guy. We've been together for about two months now, and he hasn't kissed me yet. I asked him about it and he said that he didn't know how to kiss. I then told him that it was kind of instinctive and then he said his anxiety overrode the instinct and now I don't know what to do because I had no idea and what if I'm not helping him by asking why he hasn't kissed me yet. So I guess my question is, what can I say now that won't make him feel pressured to do anything?

Asked by: Anonymous

Talk to him about how you understand what’s wrong and let him know that no matter what you still love him. Just comfort him about this so he doesn’t feel bad about not kissing you  or feeling like he can’t. Tell him that when he feels ready, he can kiss you. Maybe kiss him on the cheek or have him kiss your cheek so that he feels more comfortable about it and let him come around with little steps until he is okay with it.

-Jamie

  • 12th July
    2014
  • 12
is there anyone online that can answer questions at the moment?

Asked by: Anonymous

I’ll be off and on for about hour or so!!! working on some personal projects, but I’ll check in, and answer often

-Sam