• 25th April
    2013
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  • 6th April
    2013
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  • 24th March
    2013
  • 24
Send love to sucidal-secret !!! Her suicide date is 30.3.13

Asked by: Anonymous

  • 15th March
    2013
  • 15
Okay so I bite my nails to an extraordinary extent. They're always sore as they don't stop bleeding I bite of the skin round the edges and now I've started on my finger tips and finger prints. My fingers are losing feeling and they're not attractive I've tried everything to stop,, garlic, nail polish (that gross one), gloves etc how do I stop?

Asked by: Anonymous

I bite my nails too, it’s really hard to stop. It’s really just a mentality you have to have and when you find yourself doing it you need to stop. And gradually work to stopping before you do it until it becomes first nature to not bite your nails.  I’m sorry that this really isn’t much help but it’s kinda the way it is. 

-Amber

  • 14th March
    2013
  • 14
So I've been trying to recover from self harm for a while, and I've been doing ok. I used to hurt myself at least twice a day, and they were always cuts that needed steri-strips or stitches. I'm trying to get better, so I've limited myself to cutting twice a week tops, and trying not to go as deep. I've been doing pretty well, but two of my more recent cuts might be infected. They're swollen and red, over a week old, and my leg stings when I move it. How do I know if it's infected/what to do?

Asked by: Anonymous

I have no idea how to tell if they’re infected, in all honesty. Mine, even the baby ones, have been red around them and stung badly for a while after, too. And to my knowledge, they weren’t infected. I would use peroxide and just be careful with you shower because they could also be red from irritation. I.e scratching, scrubbing too hard, etc. With the peroxide, if you don’t know, it gets all the nasty germs out of the wound that prevent it from healing.just be careful and try and be sensitive to your skin.

- M c:

  • 14th March
    2013
  • 14
I'm really having a hard time. School is not working out, my family is always bugging me... I've never cut, but I really feel like I HAVE to.

Asked by: Anonymous

Don’t sweetie. Urges come and go; it’s part of recovery. You are stronger than this. Resist the urge.. Distract yourself with something. Anything. I promise you can get through the stress and pain WITHOUT cutting again. We all have faith in you, dear.

- M c:

  • 14th March
    2013
  • 14

Hey guys! I’m at school in study hall so if anyone needs to talk, I’m here ~

- M c:

  • 12th March
    2013
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  • 28th February
    2013
  • 28
Its a long story, but in 2011 I met a guy and immediately fell in love with him. We never really dated, he always had a girlfriend and I was kinda his bestfriend.. he eventually moved away, and we talked a couple times. Then today I got a random letter from him, he said hes in jail and started telling me how he loves me and always has. My problem is, I met another guy when he moved.. who actually treats me right and I'm falling hard for him. I just dont wanna go back to the past, but i miss him.

Asked by: theworldsbestactress

And you’ll probably miss him for a long time. He left on good terms, he never did anything to hurt you, you two just drifted away. Do you know how he got into jail? It just sounds like he may have changed a lot and if he’s far away it will add strain on your relationship. But if you don’t want to go back to your past, don’t. Move on to a future that is unpredictable and new. It’s up to you deary you just need to think of goals and what you want for the future. 

-Amber

  • 28th February
    2013
  • 28
No, I meant she feels bad about liking him because I liked him first and she started liking him because she thought I didn't like him anymore. I talked to her about it before though and she handed him over to me and gave me tips on how to get his attention c:

Asked by: Anonymous

That’s awesome. :) <3 Good luck deary!! 

-Amber