• 28th August
    2014
  • 28
There's a new guy in my school and we got partnered up for a project (since I was the only one left without a partner). This was on his first day, I talked to him one week later (yesterday) and we started talking more. He's really shy and hasn't made any friends. My friends say he likes me and he asked me to go to his house tomorrow and I said yes. Now my social anxiety is taking over and I'm worrying about everything. I do want to hang out with him I'm just really paranoid and Idk what to do

Asked by: Anonymous

You don’t have to be nervous honey, it’s ok , you are just hanging out , it’s ok love

These will help you relax sweetie

http://imthegirlthat.tumblr.com/post/86954191115/l-adore-here-are-links-to-all-sorts-of-helpful

~ Bea

  • 25th August
    2014
  • 25
Hey! I'm a new advice blog! If you could tell your followers about me I would be so grateful! Thanks, Vi 💕

Asked by: vi-gives-advice

  • 18th August
    2014
  • 18
I just cut for the first time ever and it won't stop burning what do I do please help

Asked by: Anonymous

It’s normal honey, desinfect and wash it with water and let it be and it will heal by itself . You shouldn’t do this anymore honey, it’s very dangerous and addicting and it’s really not worth it.

>Here are some alternatives to self harm,

I hope this helps you to deal with your problems honey

~ Bea

  • 17th August
    2014
  • 17
That's a lot of bands haha. Thanks.(:

Asked by: Anonymous

you’re welcome! (I literally went through my itunes and named some that were similar )

~Kat

  • 17th August
    2014
  • 17
Can someone recommend any relatable bands like tonight alive, simple plan?

Asked by: Anonymous

The 1975, 30 Seconds to Mars, The Academy Is…, All Time Low, The All American Rejects, Asking Alexandria, Avenged Sevenfold, Avril Lavigne, Bastille, Biffy Clyro, The Blackout, Blink-182, Bowling For Soup, Boys Like Girls, Bring Me The Horizon, Bullet For My Valentine, Cute Is what we aim for, A Day To Remember, Dead By April,  Deaf Havana, The Devil Wears Prada, Enter Shikari, Escape The Fate, Evanescence, Every Avenue, Eyes Set To Kill, Fall Out Boy, Falling In Reverse, Flyleaf, Foo Fighters, Forever The Sickest Kids, Fountains of Wayne, Framing Hanley, The Goo Goo Dolls, Good Charlotte, Green Day, Guns N’ Roses, Hit The Lights, Hollywood Undead, I See Stars, Jimmy Eat World, Kelly Clarkson, La Dispute, Late Night Reading, Limp Bizkit, Linkin Park, The Maine, Mallory Knox, Marina and The Diamonds, Mayday Parade, McFly, Metro Station, Mindless Self Indulgence,  My Chemical Romance, Nevershoutnever!, Nirvana, New Found Glory, Of Mice and Men, Panic at The Disco, Papa Roach, Paramore, Pierce The Veil, The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, Rise Against, Saving Aimee, Scary Kids Scaring Kids, Scouting For Girls, Sick Puppies, Simple Plan, Skillet, Sleeping With Sirens, Slipknot, Sum 41, Three Days Grace, Tonight Alive, Twenty Twenty, VersaEmerge, We Are The In Crowd, We Are The Ocean, We The Kings, Wheatus, While She Sleeps, Woe Is Me, Yashin, You Me At Six. 

I just copied a list of my favourite bands that I wrote a while back but I hope it helps - Leia x 

  • 17th August
    2014
  • 17
(2/2) to break their hearts. I've dated two of his best friends and told the other one I'd date him but I went back on it. And the worst part is, all these guys are my absolute best friends. I love them to the moon and back. I don't even know why I done what I done. But I've done this for years. I just don't wanna be hurt. I've been hurt. It sucks major balls. I'm the typical heartbreaker though. Fishnet and skinnies and straight crazy colored hair and band shirts and combat boots. Help. ~Sammi

Asked by: Anonymous

hey sammi. i understand your confusion but you have to realize if youve hurt him or his friends, it may not work out from past issues.
you did that in the past, but it doesnt define you. you can change. maybe if you start treating people better, you wont hate yourself either. you said yourself that youve been hurt, so you know how it feels when you do that to other guys. thats probably why you dont like yourself, or part of the reason why. but you can change.
try being honest with this guy, tell him how you feel and how he seems different than your past relationships. try hard to keep him around and youll be able to change your attitude about all of this. i know you can (:
-Jamie

  • 17th August
    2014
  • 17
(1/2) I really take joy in dating guys and telling them I love them and then just being a total bitch to them after I kinda take their first kiss and first serious relationship and then I just take joy knowing I hurt them. Why? I think I've got issues. I really hate myself. I'm with a guy now and I started out doing the same thing but now I actually love him. I still took his firsts but he's different. I pick the person I'm gonna date by leading on their best friend and then dating them ~Sammi

Asked by: Anonymous

  • 17th August
    2014
  • 17
So I've been talking to this boy for about two months now we have met Eachothers parents and our parents have met also I got to his house about once a week which he doesn't mind but I feel bad I've never invited him over. It's just that my house is so small there's no room to hang out in except my bedroom and my mom won't let boys in my bedroom (even if I leave the door open) I don't plan on doing anything with him I just wanna watch a movie. How can I convince my mom to allow him in my room?!?!

Asked by: Anonymous

you may not be able to completely convince her because she might just have her own reasons or be stubborn about it. she might just think youre too young or that she doesnt know him enough. maybe invite him to do other things with you and your family, like when you guys go somewhere have him tag along. or invite him over for dinner, that way your mom can get to know him a bit better.
she might be able to trust the two of you together, plus talk about it with her, include the compromises like leaving the door open and maybe let her check in on you once or twice.
-Jamie

  • 17th August
    2014
  • 17
I have had lice for about four years. I gave it to my one and a half year boyfriend and he resents me fr it. I am ready to tell me parents about my problem but he doesn't want to do anything about it because he doesnt want to cut his hair. He keeps yelling at me that it's my fault. I'm losing my hairand i get sores on my scalp constantly. I can't get it fixed unless he gets it fixed. Idk what to do.

Asked by: Anonymous

there are different treatments so you should talk to your parents about it. different combs or shampoo to try, and then you can look into moisturizing shampoos to help your scalp from this.
its not your fault, you didnt purposely give him lice, you didnt want to and he shouldnt be treating you badly because of it. youre an amazing person and deserve to be treated as such, so dont settle for less.
-Jamie

  • 17th August
    2014
  • 17
Is it bad that I wanna be characterized as "emo"? I feel bad trying to change my look cuz my parents don't support the appearance I'm trying to achieve and I cut so I feel like I'm just asking for trouble.

Asked by: Anonymous

its not bad, youre just at the stage of wanting to figure out who you are :) just let your parents know what youre going through and that your style is what makes you feel like yourself and more comfortable. they will get used to it.
however, you can get through all of this without hurting yourself. ask parents, friends, teachers, anyone for support because you CAN get through it.
http://wedonthealinisolation.tumblr.com/alternativestoselfharm use those alternatives to keep from hurting yourself. you deserve better.
-Jamie